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bed, mother, deep eyes, Qiruoyousi. Her slightly quivering lips, eyes toward the corner of his daughter and an old wardrobe.
up her daughter's heart gave a twitch, and she knew what her mother meant. 20 years, the knife carved in her daughter's heart,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], and how can forget it? That day, the mother explained to her daughter slowly, funeral: my life, no other desire but to your children one thing, I'm dead, casually buried where,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], but it will not promise you father buried together. At that time, the mother how she did not expect so much and that the resentment of his father. Fortunately, later the mother came back from near death, she was the daughter have a chance to snoop into the mother's heart sounds. It turned out that the couple is a pair of unhappy marriages, arguing with each other a whole lifetime.
she asked the mother, have you considered divorce? Mother said,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], we have had this idea, but did not mention, first, to you two kids can have a complete home, and second, impact of divorce is not good, they are intellectuals, also Mabu Kai face to make do with such a dubious manner. Therefore, the living do not hit it dead on completely separate from it. Said the mother, child, you must remember and tell your brother the field, if I was buried in the sea, put your father buried in the mountains; if I buried hill, then he was buried in the sea, so that our future in another a world never to meet. Later, the mother in front of her daughter's face, hand and put in on paper,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], stamped and put his arm and dressing boxes.
just did not expect, 5 years ago, the father is before the first out in the sick mother, and asked to bury the ashes into the sea to feed the fish. Now, the father has to the sea, then buried the mountain mother put it. Mother's attention a long time refused to leave parked in a corner of the wardrobe. She reached down and gently mouth ear attached to the mother, said: Mama, Do not worry, I'll do as you mean to do. However, the old man's eyes still parked there would not be recovered. She had got up, went to locker to open the bottom of a drawer, dressing lightly endorse bird boxes, Pengdao mother in front of the lid open, remove the share of wills. Her mother put it on the front and told his mother: Please go in peace, my daughter will not go against your wishes for.
However, she suddenly froze,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], would the words have changed the will, the will is only these words: please bury me at sea it. She repeated the identification, handwriting is still the mother, still covered with the seal of the mother,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], the date one month ago. She froze for a moment, to explore the mother's eyes fell on his face, but his mother eyes had shut.
she burst into tears, this time the mother took the mystery forever, only riddle left to her, she lost in thought. Fighting before a love for the one small request>> after a

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No one can be found who has my handwriting. Nobody anywhere has my tastes — for food or music or art. No one sees things just as I do. In all of time there's been no one who laughs like me, no one who cries like me. And what makes me laugh and cry will never provoke1) identical laughters and tears from anybody else, ever. No one reacts to any situation just as I would react.
I'm special.

v1se0547 · Wysłany: Sob 10:06, 12 Mar 2011 Temat postu:

I love you .... for your happiness, I am willing to give up everything --- including you.

disappointed, sometimes a blessing, something to look forward because it will be disappointed. Because there is love, will have expectations,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], so even if disappointment is a blessing, although this being a little pain.

distance is the world's most Qijue two people have been very far away, strangers, suddenly one day they met, love, distance becomes very close. Then one day, no longer love, two people have been very close, became very far, even farther than before.

love people forget time and time people forget the love.

alone is not a birthright, but by a person you love the moment.

like a person, is not painful. Love a person,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], may have lingering pain,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], but he gave me pleasure, also the greatest joy.

two people together for fun, breaking up is to reduce the pain, you can not make me happy, and I only left when I left, and very painful, but you definitely better than my pain, because Let me first say, first of all is my pursuit of happiness.

all things are price,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], price of happiness is suffering.

start at the right time, we know, there is always an end.

love has not yet come, the days are carefree; the most painful, is nothing but tests and examinations. Felt great pressure, then look back, but how small.

Some people are destined to wait for someone else, some people are destined to be so.

origin edge off, edge thick edge light, not our control. We can do is to cherish good chance encounter at the right time for that brief time.

did meet, is better than never meet.

forget why would a person in pain,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], time will naturally make you forget. If the time should not let you forget to remember, we lost years what is the point?

I think that love can overcome all, who knows what she is sometimes no power. I think that love can fill the life of regret, however, create more unfortunately, has chosen to love. Wanes in a love constantly repeated. For a person, not the sky always blue. Love will be the end of the time since the end of that time, you do not want to stop after no good.

the same person can not give you the same pain. When he was repeatedly hurt you feel that the wound has been used to numb the hurt no matter how many times in his first time is also far less than the injuries that hurt.

love, turned smiling to drink poisoned wine.

love a person is difficult, more difficult to give up his beloved people.

When love comes, of course, happy. However, this happiness is to be paid, but also learn to accept the disappointment, pain and separation. From then on, life is no longer pure.

perhaps we can love two people simultaneously, and be loved by two people. Unfortunately, we can only stay together with the old one.

love someone, there is always a little afraid, afraid to get his; fear of losing him. You have not been loved, you will cherish the people that love you in the future.

can not meet, they miss each other. But once able to meet together once longer follow, they would torture each other.

only looking frustrated when I can take my tears; happy when I can bite my shoulder.

if I do not love you, I will not miss you, I would not envy your side of the opposite sex, I will not lose self-confidence and fighting spirit, I will not be painful. If I can not love you, that would be great.

parting, is to meet again.

fire is, or should not be renewed for. Renewed, and once those beautiful memories will disappear. If we do not meet again, maybe I miss contact with his deep, until the flesh decay; However, this moment, I hate him. All the good days far never came back out.

flu was originally a very sad disease.

pursuit and desire, only joy and the frustration and disappointment. After the frustration and disappointment that we learn to cherish. You have not been loved, you will cherish the people that love you in the future.

years if the emotional and tear can also be lightly thrown into the sea since then I am willing to silence in the sea I hear your words ... do not you know my silence would like to see the love did not understand ... not complex, but three words come and go, not

love, but they can not fall in love, fell in love but not love.

I also believe that love can overcome all difficulties; only, never after, but also extremely difficult. This is I believe.

your heart is my cape and the horizon, I can not go farther. Ends of the earth we have to ride this life, not walk halfway around the world, but human companions.

you love me? have loved to dangerous levels of the. dangerous to what extent? is not a person's life.

meet, not hate late, is the hate early.

romantic love is something people are frustrated not afford to.

love can not stay together for life but people come and go in the long journey in the transfer station has to go away no matter how long it take to stay another flight.

left, I think you do not forget one thing: Do not forget to miss me. Miss me, do not forget I also miss you.

Love is not a shelter, to get in a buffer, will be turned out. If you can not forget him

, do not forget the good. Really forget that it was not hard.

in the love of the world, there are always some absurd things happen, when a person that can pay off Huijiu, worthy of the time to live, but why has to end, so unbearable not only love, and is life.

love someone, you're going to self-love.

commitment has always been a struggle between man and woman, sometimes happy, most of the situation is lose-lose.

Love is not a shelter, to get in a buffer, will be turned out.

the most powerful virus, is the love and lies. We fear the years, but do not know how gratifying alive. We believe that life is boring, but many people are struggling between life and death. When we finally agreed to what he had grateful? Forget the years, forget the pain and forget the bad, and we never, never say.

most of the time of life, commitment is bound synonyms,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], nonetheless we aspire to bondage. Love the fire, or should not be renewed for. Renewed, and once those beautiful memories will disappear. If we do not meet again, maybe I'll live with his deep thoughts, until the flesh decay; However, this moment, I hate him. All the good days far never came back out.

love want to start from, but also by the desperate end. Lost hope, there is not any I have had hope for you.

love with you, I miss the taste of taste, separation anxiety and the torment of jealousy, there is the endless desire. Why did you move got me goosebumps? Why am I always afraid of how quickly time flies and you can not stay together for life?

forget why would a person in pain, time will naturally make you forget. If the time should not let you forget to remember, we lost years what is the point?

know will lose their freedom, knowing that this is a lifetime contract, in order to get the other side, in order to make each other happy, but also willing to make commitments. The pursuit of a free love too if you do not complain is not free, that moment when you do not love him.

alone is not a birthright, but by you personally still love the moment.

like a person, is not painful. Love a person, may have lingering pain, but he gave me pleasure, also the greatest joy

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Collecting as a serious hobby is quite different and has many advantages. It provides relaxation for leisure hours, as just looking at one's treasures is always a joy. One does not have to go outside for amusement, since the collection is housed at home. Whatever it consists of, stamps, records, first editions of books, china, glass, antique furniture, pictures, model cars, stuffed birds, toy animals, there is always something to do in connection with it, from finding the right place for the latest addition, to verifying facts in reference books. This hobby educates one not only in the chosen subject, but also in general matters which have some bearing on it. There are also other benefits. One wants to meet like-minded collectors, to get advice, to compare notes, to exchange articles, to show off the latest find. So one's circle of friends grows. Soon the hobby leads to travel , perhaps to a meeting in another town, possibly a trip abroad in search of a rare specimen, for collectors are not confined to any one country. Over the years, one may well become an authority on one's hobby and will very probably be asked to give informal talks to little gatherings and then, if successful, to larger audiences. In this way self-confidence grows, first from mastering a subject, then from being able to talk about it. Collecting, by occupying spare time so constructively, makes a person contented, with no time for boredom.

43xz4233 · Wysłany: Pią 3:20, 25 Mar 2011 Temat postu:

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如果这篇文章没有分享给你，那是我的错。
如果这篇文章分享给你了，你却没有读，继续走弯路的你不要怪我。
如果你看了这篇文章，只读了一半你就说没时间了，说明你已经是个“茫"人了。
如果你看完了，你觉得这篇文章只是讲讲大道理，说明你的人生阅历还不够，需要你把这篇文章珍藏，走出去碰几年壁，头破血流后再回来，再读，你就会感叹自己的年少无知。
如果你看完了，觉得很有道理，然后束之高阁，继续走进拥挤的地铁，依然用着自己昨日的观念来思考自己的未来，你的人生也将继续重复着昨日的状况。
如果你看完了，觉得那是一个过来人，对你的人生忠告，并你也愿意用他告诉你的思想去指导自己今后的生活，对你来讲成功不是很难，难的是你是否可以用这篇文章里的思想一直鞭策自己。
如果你看完了，觉得那是一个长辈用他的一生的时间来写的一篇对你忠告的文章，说明你已经有了和他相似的人生阅历，只要你继续努力，成就伟业并不难，难的是你是否可以把自己的人生经验和他人分享呢？
体验决定深度，知识决定广度。你的人生是什么呢？
一、关于工作与生活
　　
　　我有个有趣的观察，外企公司多的是25-35岁的白领，40岁以上的员工很少，二三十岁的外企员工是意气风发的，但外企公司40岁附近的经理人是很尴尬的。我见过的40岁附近的外企经理人大多在一直跳槽，最后大多跳到民企，比方说，唐骏。外企员工的成功很大程度上是公司的成功，并非个人的成功，西门子的确比国美大，但并不代表西门子中国经理比国美的老板强，甚至可以说差得很远。而进外企的人往往并不能很早理解这一点，把自己的成功90％归功于自己的能力，实际上，外企公司随便换个中国区总经理并不会给业绩带来什么了不起的影响。好了问题来了，当这些经理人40多岁了，他们的薪资要求变得很高，而他们的才能其实又不是那么出众，作为外企公司的老板，你会怎么选择？有的是只要不高薪水的，要出位的精明强干精力充沛的年轻人，有的是，为什么还要用你？
　　
　　从上面这个例子，其实可以看到我们的工作轨迹，二三十岁的时候，生活的压力还比较小，身体还比较好，上面的父母身体还好，下面又没有孩子，不用还房贷，也没有孩子要上大学，当个外企小白领还是很光鲜的，挣得不多也够花了。但是人终归要结婚生子，终归会老，到了40岁，父母老了，要看病要吃药，要有人看护，自己要还房贷，要过基本体面的生活，要养小孩……那个时候需要挣多少钱才够花才重要。所以，看待工作，眼光要放远一点，一时的谁高谁低并不能说明什么。
　　
　　从这个角度上来说，我不太赞成过于关注第一份工作的薪水，更没有必要攀比第一份工作的薪水，这在刚刚出校园的学生中间是很常见的。正常人大概要工作 35年，这好比是一场马拉松比赛，和真正的马拉松比赛不同的是，这次比赛没有职业选手，每个人都只有一次机会。要知到，有很多人甚至坚持不到终点，大多数人最后是走到终点的，只有少数人是跑过终点的,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]，因此在刚开始的时候，去抢领先的位置并没有太大的意义。刚进社会的时候如果进500强公司，大概能拿到3k -6k/月的工资，有些特别技术的人才可能可以到8k/月，可问题是，5年以后拿多少？估计5k-10k了不起了。起点虽然高，但增幅有限，而且，后面的年轻人追赶的压力越来越大。
　　
　　我前两天问我的一个销售，你会的这些东西一个新人2年就都学会了，但新人所要求的薪水却只是你的一半，到时候，你怎么办？
　　职业生涯就像一场体育比赛，有初赛、复赛、决赛。初赛的时候大家都刚刚进社会，大多数都是实力一般的人，这时候努力一点认真一点很快就能让人脱颖而出，于是有的人二十多岁做了经理，有的人迟些也终于赢得了初赛，三十多岁成了经理。然后是复赛，能参加复赛的都是赢得初赛的，每个人都有些能耐，在聪明才智上都不成问题，这个时候再想要胜出就不那么容易了，单靠一点点努力和认真还不够，要有很强的坚忍精神，要懂得靠团队的力量，要懂得收服人心，要有长远的眼光……
　　
　　看上去赢得复赛并不容易，但，还不是那么难。因为这个世界的规律就是给人一点成功的同时让人骄傲自满，刚刚赢得初赛的人往往不知道自己赢得的仅仅是初赛，有了一点小小的成绩大多数人都会骄傲自满起来，认为自己已经懂得了全部，不需要再努力再学习了，他们会认为之所以不能再进一步已经不是自己的原因了。虽然他们仍然不好对付，但是他们没有耐性，没有容人的度量，更没有清晰长远的目光。就像一只愤怒的斗牛，虽然猛烈，最终是会败的，而赢得复赛的人则象斗牛士一样，不急不躁，跟随着自己的节拍，慢慢耗尽对手的耐心和体力。赢得了复赛以后，大约已经是一位很了不起的职业经理人了，当上了中小公司的总经理，大公司的副总经理，主管着每年几千万乃至几亿的生意。
　　
　　最终的决赛来了，说实话我自己都还没有赢得决赛，因此对于决赛的决胜因素也只能凭自己的猜测而已，这个时候的输赢或许就像武侠小说里写得那样，大家都是高手，只能等待对方犯错了，要想轻易击败对手是不可能的，除了使上浑身解数，还需要一点运气和时间。世界的规律依然发挥着作用，赢得复赛的人已经不只是骄傲自满了，他们往往刚愎自用，听不进去别人的话，有些人的脾气变得暴躁，心情变得浮躁，身体变得糟糕，他们最大的敌人就是他们自己，在决赛中要做的只是不被自己击败，等着别人被自己击败。这和体育比赛是一样的，最后高手之间的比赛，就看谁失误少谁就赢得了决赛。
　　
　　二、根源
　　
　　你工作快乐么？你的工作好么？
　　
　　有没有觉得干了一段时间以后工作很不开心？有没有觉得自己入错了行？有没有觉得自己没有得到应有的待遇？有没有觉得工作像一团乱麻每天上班都是一种痛苦？有没有很想换个工作？有没有觉得其实现在的公司并没有当初想象得那么好？有没有觉得这份工作是当初因为生存压力而找的，实在不适合自己？你从工作中得到你想要得到的了么？你每天开心么？
　　
　　天涯上愤怒的人很多，你有没有想过，你为什么不快乐？你为什么愤怒？
　　
　　其实，你不快乐的根源，是因为你不知道要什么！你不知道要什么,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]，所以你不知道去追求什么，你不知道追求什么，所以你什么也得不到。
　　
　　我总觉得，职业生涯首先要关注的是自己，自己想要什么？大多数人大概没想过这个问题，唯一的想法只是――我想要一份工作，我想要一份不错的薪水，我知道所有人对于薪水的渴望，可是，你想每隔几年重来一次找工作的过程么？你想每年都在这种对于工作和薪水的焦急不安中度过么？不想的话，就好好想清楚。饮鸩止渴，不能因为口渴就拼命喝毒药。越是焦急，越是觉得自己需要一份工作，越饥不择食，越想不清楚，越容易失败，你的经历越来越差，下一份工作的人看着你的简历就皱眉头。于是你越喝越渴，越渴越喝，陷入恶性循环。最终只能哀叹世事不公或者生不逢时，只能到天涯上来发泄一把，在失败者的共鸣当中寻求一点心理平衡罢了。大多数人都有生存压力，我也是，有生存压力就会有很多焦虑，积极的人会从焦虑中得到动力，而消极的人则会因为焦虑而迷失方向。所有人都必须在压力下做出选择，这就是世道，你喜欢也罢不喜欢也罢。
　　
　　一般我们处理的事情分为重要的事情和紧急的事情，如果不做重要的事情就会常常去做紧急的事情。比如锻炼身体保持健康是重要的事情，而看病则是紧急的事情。如果不锻炼身体保持健康，就会常常为了病痛烦恼。又比如防火是重要的事情，而救火是紧急的事情，如果不注意防火，就要常常救火。找工作也是如此，想好自己究竟要什么是重要的事情，找工作是紧急的事情，如果不想好，就会常常要找工作。往往紧急的事情给人的压力比较大，迫使人们去赶紧做，相对来说重要的事情反而没有那么大的压力，大多数人做事情都是以压力为导向的，压力之下，总觉得非要先做紧急的事情，结果就是永远到处救火，永远没有停歇的时候。（很多人的工作也像是救火队一样忙碌痛苦，也是因为工作中没有做好重要的事情。）那些说自己活在水深火热为了生存顾不上那么多的朋友，今天找工作困难是当初你们没有做重要的事情，是结果不是原因。如果今天你们还是因为急于要找一份工作而不去思考，那么或许将来要继续承受痛苦找工作的结果。
　　
　　我始终觉得我要说的话题，沉重了点，需要很多思考，远比唐笑打武警的话题来的枯燥乏味，但是，天下没有轻松的成功，成功，要付代价。请先忘记一切的生存压力，想想这辈子你最想要的是什么？所以，最要紧的事情，先想好自己想要什么。
　　
　　三、什么是好工作
　　
　　当初微软有个唐骏，很多大学里的年轻人觉得这才是他们向往的职业生涯，我在清华bbs里发的帖子被这些学子们所不屑，那个时候学生们只想出国或者去外企，不过如今看来，我还是对的，唐骏去了盛大，陈天桥创立的盛大，一家民营公司。一个高学历的海归在500强的公司里拿高薪水，这大约是很多年轻人的梦想，问题是，每年毕业的大学生都在做这个梦，好的职位却只有500个。
　　
　　人都是要面子的，也是喜欢攀比的，即使在工作上也喜欢攀比，不管那是不是自己想要的。大家认为外企公司很好，可是好在哪里呢？好吧，他们在比较好的写字楼，这是你想要的么？他们出差住比较好的酒店，这是你想要的么？别人会羡慕一份外企公司的工作，这是你想要的么？那一切都是给别人看的，你干吗要活得那么辛苦给别人看？另一方面，他们薪水福利一般，并没有特别了不起，他们的晋升机会比较少,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]，很难做到很高阶的主管，他们虽然厌恶常常加班，却不敢不加班，因为“你不干有得是人干"，大部分情况下会找个台湾人香港人新加坡人来管你，而这些人又往往有些莫名其妙的优越感。你想清楚了么？500强一定好么？找工作究竟是考虑你想要什么，还是考虑别人想看什么？
　　
　　我的大学同学们大多数都到美国了，甚至毕业这么多年了,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]，还有人最近到国外去了。出国真的有那么好么？我的大学同学们，大多数还是在博士、博士后、访问学者地挣扎着，至今只有一个正经在一个美国大学里拿到个正式的教职。国内的教授很难当么？我有几个表亲也去了国外了，他们的父母独自在国内，没有人照顾，有好几次人在家里昏倒都没人知道，出国，真的这么光彩么？就像有人说的“很多事情就像看A片,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]，看的人觉得很爽，做的人未必。"
　　
　　人总想找到那个最好的，可是，什么是最好的？你觉得是最好的那个，是因为你的确了解，还是因为别人说他是最好的？即使他对于别人是最好的，对于你也一定是最好的么？
　　
　　对于自己想要什么，自己要最清楚，别人的意见并不是那么重要。很多人总是常常被别人的意见所影响，亲戚的意见，朋友的意见，同事的意见……问题是，你究竟是要过谁的一生？人的一生不是父母一生的续集，也不是儿女一生的前传，更不是朋友一生的外篇，只有你自己对自己的一生负责，别人无法也负不起这个责任。自己做的决定，至少到最后，自己没什么可后悔。对于大多数正常智力的人来说，所做的决定没有大的对错，无论怎么样的选择，都是可以尝试的。比如你没有考自己上的那个学校，没有入现在这个行业，这辈子就过不下去了？就会很失败？不见得。
　　
　　我想，好工作，应该是适合你的工作，具体点说，应该是能给你带来你想要的东西的工作，你或许应该以此来衡量你的工作究竟好不好，而不是拿公司的大小，规模，外企还是国企，是不是有名，是不是上市公司来衡量。小公司，未必不是好公司，赚钱多的工作，也未必是好工作。你还是要先弄清楚你想要什么，如果你不清楚你想要什么，你就永远也不会找到好工作，因为你永远只看到你得不到的东西，你得到的，都是你不想要的。
　　可能，最好的，已经在你的身边，只是，你还没有学会珍惜。人们总是盯着得不到的东西，而忽视了那些已经得到的东西。
　　
　　四、普通人
　　
　　我发现中国人的励志和国外的励志存在非常大的不同，中国的励志比较鼓励人立下大志愿，卧薪尝胆，有朝一日成富成贵。而国外的励志比较鼓励人勇敢面对现实生活，面对普通人的困境，虽然结果也是成富成贵，但起点不一样，相对来说，我觉得后者在操作上更现实，而前者则需要用999个失败者来堆砌一个成功者的故事。
　　
　　我们都是普通人，普通人的意思就是，概率这件事是很准的。因此，我们不会买彩票中500万，我们不会成为比尔盖茨或者李嘉诚，我们不会坐飞机掉下来，我们当中很少的人会创业成功，我们之中有30％的人会离婚，我们之中大部分人会活过65岁……
　　
　　所以请你在想自己要什么的时候，要得“现实"一点，你说我想要做李嘉诚，抱歉，我帮不上你。成为比尔盖茨或者李嘉诚这种人，是靠命的，看我写的这篇文章绝对不会让你成为他们，即使你成为了他们，也绝对不是我这篇文章的功劳。“王侯将相宁有种乎"但真正当皇帝的只有一个人，王侯将相，人也不多。目标定得高些对于喜欢挑战的人来说有好处，但对于大多数普通人来说，反而比较容易灰心沮丧，很容易就放弃了。
　　
　　回过头来说，李嘉诚比你有钱大致50万倍，他比你更快乐么？或许。有没有比你快乐50万倍，一定没有。他比你最多也就快乐一两倍，甚至有可能还不如你快乐。寻找自己想要的东西不是和别人比赛，比谁要得更多更高，比谁的目标更远大。虽然成为李嘉诚这个目标很宏大，但你并不见得会从这个目标以及追求目标的过程当中获得快乐，而且基本上你也做不到。你必须听听你内心的声音，寻找真正能够使你获得快乐的东西，那才是你想要的东西。
　　你想要的东西，或者我们把它称之为目标，目标其实并没有高低之分，你不需要因为自己的目标没有别人远大而不好意思，达到自己的目标其实就是成功，成功有大有小，快乐却是一样的。我们追逐成功，其实追逐的是成功带来的快乐，而非成功本身。职业生涯的道路上，我们常常会被攀比的心态蒙住眼睛，忘记了追求的究竟是什么，忘记了是什么能使我们更快乐。
　　
　　社会上一夜暴富的新闻很多，这些消息，总会在我们的心里面掀起很多涟漪，涟漪多了就变成惊涛骇浪，心里的惊涛骇浪除了打翻承载你目标的小船，并不会使得你也一夜暴富。“只见贼吃肉，不见贼挨揍。"我们这些普通人既没有当贼的勇气，又缺乏当贼的狠辣绝决，虽然羡慕吃肉，却更害怕挨揍，偶尔看到几个没挨揍的贼就按奈不住，或者心思活动，或者大感不公，真要叫去做贼，却也不敢。
　　
我还是过普通人的日子，要普通人的快乐，至少，晚上睡得着觉。